Experience

Experiencing new things is always like a new journey to my soul. Whenever I do something different it feels like I’m on a journey which is going to lead me in my life. It feels like it is going to make me a better person than the previous one. It’s like feeding my soul with adventure. Whenever I do something new that I never had done before then it feels like getting into the new world because I don’t know what is coming next on my way but still it feels right.
 

Recently I joined a job and day by day I’m learning new things. I’m meeting new people, learning from their experiences. Some are like mentors to me and some are like friends to me. Some people care for me and some doesn’t talk to me. I’m a shy person and it takes time to get me out of my shell. May be they are waiting for me to initiate. Whatever is going on these days in my life is totally new and I’m enjoying it. I’m experiencing the life in a better way and it’s good for me and one should know the pro tip–  Maturity comes with experience not with age. 

May be one day I’ll be master in my work.Let’s hope for the best and wish me luck 😇

Experience is a hard teacher. She gives the test first and the lessons afterwards. –Unknown

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Short Note #2

There was one of my friend let us call her ‘X’. She used to be very happy in her life. She was attractive, intelligent and master in her work. Everything was going in her life very smooth. 


Then there came a boy in her life. He was very loving and caring towards her. He used to fulfill all her wishes. He was like a dream boy for her. Everything was fine when it all started, but slowly ‘X’ started changing for him.

 She started choosing her clothes by his choice. She started preparing food only according to his choice. She started liking all his likes and disliking all his dislikes. She was completely into him. Her world started revolving around him only. Now it became  her habit to call him every morning and night. There was not a single day that passed without talking him. She became dependent on him emotionally. She used to be happy only if he treats her well. By chance if he ignores her call she used to get mad at him. She was totally obsessed with this boy. She started fighting with him on little things and after so many fights he broke up with her.

It was like the end of world for her. She started crying all day. She was nothing but sad all day. 

I advised her to look for other things in her life. I told her the things that she used to say to others in their problem.

I don’t know why people love anyone this much. It was her mistake that she changes herself for him which she shouldn’t. 

I want to say that no one should depend on anyone for their happiness. Be the reason for your own happiness because no one can make you happy if you don’t want to be. It’s as simple as I say.

It’s been 2 months of her breakup. She is changing her attitude now. I hope she could recover her life again like she used to be before…

Tale of two friends

Once there were two friends Jack and Sam. They were best friends from their childhood. They completed their graduation together with the same university and they got their dream job in the same city. They both were hard working. They were doing well in their life. Time passed day by day and they were on the fast track of life. They were busy in their life doing office work, attending meetings and focusing on deadlines. They stopped meeting occasionally due to their machine like lifestyle. They were totally involved in their work. 

One day, Sam thought to meet his all time best friend Jack. So he went to his house. He saw Jack was lying on the bed retarded. His face was dull and he was looking very weak. Sam was surprised, he asked,”Hey Jack! What happened to you? Why are you looking so weak?”
Jack smiled a little and said in a low voice,” I don’t know why these days I’m not feeling good and I don’t want to live anymore. These days life means nothing to me.”

Hearing these words Sam was stunned. He thought how his best friend who used to be so happy and optimistic in his life can say these hopeless sentence.

Sam said,” I’m going to call the doctor or you have to come with me to the hospital. If you want me to be your friend forever then get up and come with me.”

For the sake of his friendship Jack agreed to go. They went to hospital and after some checkups doctor said that Jack is suffering from some hazardous disease and he’s on the last stage of the disease and he doesn’t have enough time in this world. After hearing this, Sam started sobbing. He hugged Jack tightly.

They both come back to home. Jack was sitting on the couch thinking about his past days. He was thinking about every single person attached to him. He was recalling his childhood days. How happy he was with his parents, his friends. After thinking a lot about his past he decided to not to be sad anymore. He got up and said to Sam,” I don’t want to leave my parents and friends sad behind me. I want to leave a smile on their faces.”

He packed his bag and he started his journey with his best friend to his hometown. He met his friends and enjoyed  quality time with his family after a long time. He went with Sam to all those places where they used to go in their childhood. They laughed their hearts out on their stupid and silly memories. They were living their life to the fullest without any worries. 

After a week, Sam received a call from the hospital. Talking with doctor tears trickled down his cheeks. After disconnecting the call he ran towards his best friend. Jack was enjoying the view out of the window. Sam hugged him and said,” You are not going anywhere Jack. The doctor told me that by mistake the reports were exchanged and you are totally fine. Your reports are clear.”

They both were crying and laughing both at the same time. They were happy souls on earth at that time. 

It is truly said that whatever happens, happens for good. Both Sam and Jack got their lessons for life.

The memories, the time we spend with our family are the precious gifts of almighty. We should never forget to enjoy the purest form of life….😇


शुभ दीपावली

अंततः इतने इंतजार के बाद आज दीपावली आ ही गयी।दीपावली आने के पहले से ही घरों में लोग उंगलियो पे दिन गिनने लगते हैं। बच्चे अलग ही उत्साह में रहते हैं। नए नए पटाख़े, नए कपड़े सब कुछ नया सा। दीपावली के साथ साथ हल्की सर्दी की भी शुरुआत हो जाती है। हर जगह सफाई का माहौल अच्छा लगता है। दीपावली क्यों मनाई जाती है इसके पीछे की कहानी तो लगभग सब जानते होंगे, फिर भी आज के दिन एक बार फिर दोहराना तो बनता है।


आज के दिन ही भगवान राम ने 14 वर्षों के वनवास के बाद अयोध्या में अर्थात अपने राज्य में वापसी की थी। अपने प्रिय राम के आगमन की खुशी में अयोध्यावासियों ने खुशी में अपने अपने घरों की सफाई की थी पूरे नगर को बुहारा गया था। लोगो ने भगवान राम के आने की खुशी में घी के दिये जलाये थे। भगवान राम ने कार्तिक की अमावस्या को अपने राज्य में वापसी की थी,इसलिए प्रत्येक वर्ष कार्तिक की अमावस्या को पूरे भारत मे दीपावली का उत्सव उत्साहपूर्वक मनाया जाता है।

मैंने भी दो दिन लगातार मेहनत कर के दिवाली के लिए पूरे घर की सफाई की है। दीपावली के लिए खरीददारी करते समय जब बाहर निकली तो सारी दुकानें जगमगाती हुई मिली। देख कर अच्छा लगा साफ सुथरी सड़के, पेंट की हुई दीवारें, और एक अलग ही उत्साह लोगो मे दिखाई दिया। जगह जगह दुर्गा माँ की मूर्ति और उसके सामने से सिर झुकाके नमस्कार करते हुए लोग। काश! जितनी इज्जत लोग देवी माँ की करते है उतनी इज्जत वास्तविक महिलाओं की करते तो अच्छा होता। खैर ये तो होने से रहा क्योंकि जबतक लोगो की सोच में स्त्रियां एक देखने की चीज रहेंगी हमे इसी नजर से देखा जाता रहेगा। चाहे कितनी भी कोशिश कर लें लेकिन जब भी बाहर जाओ तो पीछे से समय से आने की एक हिदायत जरूर मिलती है, क्योकि कहते है ना जमाना खराब चल रहा है। समय से घर आना जरूरी है, कुछ कहा नही जा सकता कि किस मोड़ पे या किस गली में घूरती हुई आंखें मिल जाये। ये समाज हम सब से ही बनता है लेकिन फिर भी हम चाह के इसे बदल नही सकते। मैं तो ये दावे के साथ कह सकती हूं कि भारत में 70% महिलाएं किसी न किसी उम्र में इस तरह की अवांछनीय गतिविधियों का शिकार तो हुई ही होंगी। ये बात शायद कुछ पुरुषो को समझ नही आती होगी कि जब रास्ते मे चलते हुए वो घूरते हैं तो हमे कैसा लगता है, या जब भीड़ भरी सड़क या भीड़ भरी बस में कोई छूने की कोशिश करता है तो कितना बुरा लगता है। और अगर किसी से पूछो की ऐसा क्यों होता है तो सुनने में ये भी आता है कि लड़कियाँ इतना तैयार हो के किसलिए आती है दिखाने के लिए ही ना!!! अब जरा कोई ये बताये अगर लड़की को अपने किसी दोस्त के घर शादी में या किसी पार्टी में जाना हो तो वो कैसे जाएगी या फिर अगर उसे खुद ही तैैयार होना पसंद हो तो क्या वो इन लोगों की वजह से तैयार न हो। कुछ को अच्छा लगता है तैयार होना और कुछ को नही लेकिन ऐसा नही होना चाहिए कि किसी की गिरी हुई सोच की वजह से हमे अपने आप को बदलना पड़े। रोज अखबार के पन्ने घिनौनी वारदातों से सने रहते है। अब तो जैसे ये आम बात हो गयी है रोज कही न कही दुष्कर्म की घटना होती ही है फिर भी लोग संस्कारी होने का दावा करते है। अब तो लोगो की आदत भी हो चुकी है ऐसी घटनाओं को पढ़ना और नजरअंदाज कर के दूसरी खबर की ओर बढ़ जाना। एक वो घटना थी जिसने पूरी दिल्ली को दहला के रख दिया था उसके अपराधियों को सजा भी हो चुकी लेकिन रोज की उन घटनाओं का क्या जिनके अपराधी खुले आम कानून व्यवस्था को ठेंगा दिखा के निकल जाते है उनकी तरफ किसी का ध्यान नही जाता। 

आज दीपावली है और मैं ये प्रार्थना करूँगी की एक दिया लोगो के अंधकार भरे मन मे भी जले जिससे आने वाले समय मे लोगों को अपने अपने घर से निकलते हुए किसी प्रकार की अनहोनी का डर न हो और हम अपने मन मे भी आजादी महसूस कर सके। मुझे भरोसा है कि भगवान राम जरूर आएंगे और राम राज्य भी आएगा।

और अंत मे ‘गोपालदास नीरज’ जी की कुछ पंक्तियाँ-

   जलाओ दिए पर रहे ध्यान इतना,

   अंधेरा धरा पर कहीं रह न जाये।

  नई ज्योति के धर नए पंख झिलमिल

   उड़े मर्त्य मिट्टी गगन स्वर्ग छू ले

   लगे रोशनी की झड़ी झूम ऐसी

   निशा की गली में

   तिमिर राह भूले

   खुले मुक्ति का वह

    किरण द्वार जगमग

   उषा जा ना पाए,निशा आ ना पाए।

   जलाओ दिए पर रहे ध्यान इतना

    अंधेरा धरा पर कहीं रह न जाये।

💕मेरी तरफ से सभी पाठको को शुभ दीपावली💕

Dear love

I know it was my fault that I trusted you easily. I trusted the stupid signs that made me thought that you are my soulmate. It was my fault that I believe you,neglecting everyone. I thought my efforts will change you but I was wrong I can change only your habits not your nature. I don’t know why and how I fall for you but it’s hurting now. I’m feeling helpless, because for me you were the world. What would I do in this emptiness. The dark night is  looking at me in a weird manner as if it is laughing at my situation. This darkness is going to kill me and eat me up. You must be celebrating your victory that you move on because you were always like this. You never noticed me when I was trying to gain your attention. You stopped appreciating me and I was stupid because I thought you are busy and you must be missing me. I know it’s all my fault because I fall for you too easily..

Short note

Live life to the fullest because you never know which is going to be the last day of this beautiful journey. 

In this world we all have limited amount of time to live. The people we meet in our daily life may be we never see them again. The moments we have now may be we never get these moments again…So be in this moment and live as you want to… Feel every day, it’s like a gift from the almighty. Your every breath is special. Don’t waste it being sad as they say, life is like an icecream so enjoy before it melts. Don’t loose your hope because you know that nothing is impossible for soul. You can do everything you want and yes only you can change your life. None is going to do it for you. It’s only you who can force you and none can do the things, you want to be done, better than you…

Stay strong...

Short story #3


Meera was new in the hostel. She was lying on the bed. Staring at the ceiling in dark, she thought to call her mother as she was scared of the hostel stories.She was searching the phone on the bed in dark. Her hands goes side by side and up and down on her right to find the phone. Suddenly…the touch of another hand made her shiver to the heart…she screamed at once and then puts her hand back. She was too afraid to got down.She jumped out of skin and  ran towards the switch board and switched  the lights on of her room. As she turned the light, she watched a girl sitting in the corner of the room. That girl was wearing rags and her hair was all dirty…she was crying and staring at Meera. Her heart was beating at a faster rate… She was afraid like never before and…..Then she heard a voice….
Surprise!!!  It was Her friends and her new roommates. It was a prank they planned to welcome Meera. Meera started shivering and she became unconscious and fell down on the floor. Everyone in the room was stunned at this situation .They lifted her up and took her to the hospital. After check up the doctor declared her dead…

Their stupid prank had taken someone’s breath away…